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Saturday, 6 January 2018

My Sister's Wedding & Bachelorette Party

My sister is finally married!!! Woohoo!!! 😁

We've been waiting for this day for a long time so even though I've been really busy and even though it is soooooo late, I had to write this post!


The Bachelorette Party:

We, the bridesmaids, explored many options and decided that the sister would want something that she can relax with the people she love. We chose to do massages at New V Spa, located at Superbowl Jurong, because it was value for money.

New V Spa
The mandatory crown and sash for the Bride-to-be!
Looks good sister! 😄

Massage packages came with unlimited use of the jacuzzi, sauna, movie room and even free food!

Buffet area to help ourselves to the food
Nice area for chit chat

We were each given a locker and a change of clothes so that we can be more comfortable when hanging out at the spa.

This wrist band is required to unlock the locker
All changed and ready for our massages! 💆🏻‍♀️


Left: Super comfortable movie room;
Right: Sauna.
Jacuzzi
Clockwise from left: Me after a soak in the jacuzzi and a nice warm shower;
Shower facilities;
Don't worry about being naked, they provide disposable underwear!

We had a great time of fellowship together! Glad to have done this with the girls!


The Pre-Wedding Prep:

There are a million things to prepare for the wedding but I'll just talk about my favourite parts!

Gown-fitting with the sister at The Gown Warehouse
Manicure and Pedicure for the bride and I
Hair treatments at my favourite local salon, De Hair Worz
Awesome service by the staff at De Hair Worz!


We were all prettified for the Big Day! 💅💋💇🏻‍♀️

Bridemaids final preparations

There's only so much you can do to prepare. You can only hope for the best on the actual day! *laughs*


The Morning Bride Pick-Up:

As with our usual Chinese custom, the bridesmaids arrived early at the bride's house to prepare the food for the Groom's entourage.

The Bridesmaids 😁
Preparing 酸甜苦辣 Sour Sweet Bitter Spicy
Popped in to check on the beautiful bride!

We're finally all ready for the groomsmen, who were given the go-ahead to come up!

Groom's entourage
(Photo taken by Official Wedding Photographer)

We played the usual gate-crashing games before the groom could meet the bride. I was very adamant that we should never torture or humiliate the groom's entourage in any way as I really hated it when bridesmaids do that (it shows a lack of class)!

Since the objective was to test the groom's determination to get to the bride, this can be done through a series of puzzles and fun challenges! As a Professor Layton Nintendo DS game fan (meaning I play and solve puzzles for fun), I thought the best way to do it will be to incorporate my 'escape room' idea. The groom had to figure out the answer to series of questions and puzzles in order to obtain a code to unlock the gate. Super fun! 😄


Thankfully the morning activities went by without much difficulties!


The Holy Matrimony:

I was the sister's wedding coordinator so I had to give the groom's house a miss and go straight to the church to ensure a smooth set up.

Set up of the reception table
Lighted up wooden balls all the way down the aisle in the few churches in Singapore that still had pews!
Signing table with decorations that I had bought from Melbourne
The only photo of our family. I was so busy that we didn't even get to take a decent one at the photo booth!

It was such a mad rush to get everything set up in time! It's not easy being a wedding coordinator!

Soon it was time for the bride's March-In. The sister wanted the bridesmaids to march in before the flower girl and page boy.

With the page boy and flower girl before the march in
(Photo taken by Official Wedding Photographer)

We specially bought the flower girl dress from a store in DFO Essendon in Melbourne. The dress is legit a miniature version of a wedding dress and made of lace, chiffon and organza! Super beautiful!


Exited for the march-in!
(after I took this photo with my phone camera just before the march-in, I hid my phone in my girl's flower basket. Smart right? *laughs* #photoaddict) 
Here comes the bride!
(Photo taken by Official Wedding Photographer)
The Holy Matrimony
Lighting of the unity candles, signifying 2 becoming 1

It was a beautiful ceremony!

With the couple at the end of the matrimony when everyone is feasting at the lunch reception

Was exhausted after the ceremony but so grateful that everything went well!


The Chinese Banquet:

There was no break for the bride and I, who headed straight to Singapore Swimming Club for hair and makeup. Thanks to the sister and brother-in-law for the makeover!

The bride and I busy with hair and makeup
Mine and the bride's finished hair looks from behind

On hindsight, I realised I would have looked much better with my hair down! Oh well, I have never had my hair tied up like Rapunzel before so it was a fun change!

The mum also had her hair and makeup done! Weddings are a good excuse to get dolled up! 😜


The bride wore the traditional red Chinese kua for Chinese tea ceremony before the banquet. After helping out for the tea ceremony, we had the chance to finally have a decent photo with the couple!

Our family with the bride and groom
(Photo taken by Official Wedding Photographer)

After tea ceremony, I had to get the bride changed into her wedding dress for their first March-In for the banquet.

This was the only photo I had of the girl as a flower girl in action!!!! Thank God for the photographer!!!
(Photo taken by Official Wedding Photographer)
Managed to capture the moment from the back and it wasn't even very nice!

After the couple took photos with half of their guests, I helped the bride change into her stunning royal blue evening gown for the 2nd March-In. I love this dress!

With the stylish couple in their coordinated blue outfits (love the train on the sister's dress!)
One of my favourite photos of the night!
(Photo taken by Official Wedding Photographer)

Once again congrats to my sister and my new brother-in-law! Although I was dead tired at the end of the night and may likely never want to be a wedding coordinator ever again, I will still do it for you because I love you! 😘 Have a blissful and blessed marriage! 🤵👰

Saturday, 12 December 2015

What Christmas Means to Us

Besides just remembering the day that Christ the Saviour was born, Christmas also symbolises for me a time of bright lights, friendship, presents, hope and most of all, love.

And of course an excuse to spend quality time with friends and family! *laughs*

In contrast to most other families, our family is not very big on exchanging presents. Of course there are times when we do (in fact, we get our mums a present every year!) but it is not mandatory. Not even for the kids, who will usually get gifts from friends and grandparents instead (hubby says Christmas is Jesus' birthday, not theirs. If anything, the gifts should be going to Jesus!).

Instead, here are 5 things that we do as a family every year no matter what.

OUR FIVE FAMILY CHRISTMAS TRADITIONS

1) Celebrating Christmas in His House

Every year without fail we will be in City Harvest Church.

Every year it is always the same: we'll be enjoying candlelight services one weekend and watching an awesome drama performance by our Drama Ministry the following weekend. It was a great time of remembering God's goodness and how He sent His Son to be born as the Saviour of the whole world.

Candlelight Service in 2011
Candlelight Service in 2014
One of our Christmas Services, with the stage all decked out for the drama performance
Hubby and I at a Christmas Service in 2013, just days before Baby Boy was born =)

It is very ironic but as I am typing this I'm realising that this year will be the first time that we'll be missing both the candlelight services AND the Christmas services because we will be in Tokyo! How can this be?!?! *gasp*

Hopefully we will not miss the one next year... *sigh*


2) Annual Christmas Dinners with Family

We don't celebrate Thanksgiving here in Singapore but we do have "Thanksgiving" dinners where we gather at my mum's house and eat "big fish big meat" (direct translation from the Chinese Idiom).

Christmas dinner in 2011
Christmas Dinner in 2013
Christmas dinner in 2014

Although the hubby's family does not celebrate Christmas, we do use it as an excuse to go out for lavish buffet dinners together! =)

Having our Christmas dinner at Orchard Hotel

The best thing about being with family is that you can always be yourself. You can dress in the ugliest pajamas, sit like a gangster, laugh like a hyena and talk with your mouth full of roast chicken, and no one will ever judge you. I love getting together with my family, and it is a Christmas tradition that I hope will be carried on forever! =)


3) Annual Christmas Gatherings with Friends

Christmas is also the time for themed parties with friends.

Hats Christmas party in 2010
Bows and Ties Christmas party in 2011
Starry Starry Night Christmas party in 2012

Christmas is also time for mandated meet-ups and occasionally gift exchanges whenever we feel like it (which is very seldom unfortunately! Ah well...).

With Baby Boy's buddy and our friends
Christmas with the BFFs in 2011
Christmas with the BFFs in 2012

Throughout pregnancy and delivery, we were there for each other. Thank you for being our friends and for sticking with us through thick and thin. You know I love you guys! =)


4) Photo-taking with Christmas Decorations

Christmas Express in Marina Bay Sands in 2013, right before I gave birth to my boy 
Left: With the Christmas tree at Ion;
Right: With a gnome in Marina Square
Baby Boy's first Christmas
(because technically he was born 2 days after Christmas so he didn't get to celebrate Christmas in the year that he was born!)

The Christmas decorations are always so warm, colourful and bright! Appreciate the effort that everyone puts in to make the malls and even offices so beautiful and fun! How can you resist taking pictures with them?


5) Celebrate Birthdays

And last but definitely not least, Christmas is a time for celebrating birthdays! Especially the birth of my Baby Boy!

My Christmas present in 2013
Baby Boy's cloud-themed first birthday at Rochester House
Baby Boy loves it when everyone sings "Happy Birthday" to him!

We also celebrate my mum's birthday, which incidentally is YESTERDAY!

Celebrating my mum's birthday in 2011 at Unique Seafood

Happy Birthday Mummy! May you always be happy and full of faith! We love you! =)

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Before I end, I'd like to say to all our lovely readers, family and friends...

MERRY CHRISTMAS and a HAPPY NEW YEAR! =)
Love, all of us at MadPsychMum

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Next up on the blog train is Angie, the Mommy who blogs at Life's Tiny Miracles. December is Angie's favourite month; it's a time of counting blessings and blessings others in return. In her blog, she and her hubby write about the beautiful and trying moments of everyday life and of parenting.



This post is part of a blog train hosted by Prayerfull Mum
Click to read more about how different families celebrate Christmas!

What Christmas Means to Our Family



P.S: This Christmas, we will also be praying for our friends whose son was recently diagnosed with cancer. Although we are heartbroken to hear this, we will continue to pray and believe that he will be healed in Jesus' name! If you can, please do join us in prayer for him and his family. Thank you! =) 
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